Inheritance

Today is my mother's birthday.  Although she died almost 16 years ago, the day feels  significant and in need of some kind of acknowledgement.  If she were still alive, I would bake a cake, set up a small party and find some small gift to give her.  She would smile, particularly if her grandchildren, nieces…

What Do Your Eyes Behold?

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."  That may be true, and there is certainly no one definition of beauty.  But the perception of beauty varies widely depending on the individual beholder, and the eye of the beholder is influenced by the prevailing social ideas about beauty, often with negative consequences for those whose…

Living Until the Curtain Falls

Newly retired and eager to prove that my life was still going to be useful and exciting, several years ago I set up my blog and named it "The Golden Years Revisited." From the name it was obvious to me that I believed most of the myths about retirement and growing older.  In a youth-obsessed…

Constant Friends

"I think you need a dog."  My husband had just informed me somewhat sheepishly that he was considering getting me a puppy as a Mother's Day present and there were a few possible candidates he was checking out on-line and wouldn't I like to go see them, you know, just to look.  No pressure, no…

Road Map

Real Wrinkles First, of course, there are the real ones.  Wrinkles on my face, wrinkles on my elbows, wrinkly skin on the backs of my hands, and wrinkles in numerous other bodily areas that I am too polite and lady-like to discuss in detail.  (You may discover this to be a blatant lie if you…

Promises, Promises

  Usually I start thinking about possible New Year's resolutions right after Thanksgiving so I'll be prepared, but I don't have to take them seriously because any promises made right after a major holiday are null and void.  This applies to resolutions made before a major holiday, too, so between Halloween and New Year's Day,…

Lunching Through Life

I should probably drink a second mug of coffee prior to checking on the daily word prompt.  This morning I was convinced the subject was "lunch." My morning read includes some of the responses from other bloggers, partly to get my brain cells firing, but also because I've discovered some interesting new blogs that way.…